The Cause of Rapid Ejaculation:  It’s Not What You Think!

There are theories that sex therapists have written about in years past. And they have been refuted. Sure, there may be men that don’t care about a partner’s pleasure or actually do have intimacy problems that show up in the bedroom.  But we’re always wondering–are there ways to last longer in bed?

Most men, I am assuming you are one of them, absolutely want to please. In fact, if there was an award for best lover, they would love to be called to the podium—or, at the very least, make it to the finals!

In the posts to follow you are going to learn how to prolong your natural response. You are going to become more confident because you will have the tools to fool Mother Nature. Keep reading!

Think of being in flow when you’re with your partner. You may ask, what’s flow? Imagine taking a mountain bike down a mountain, hitting speeds in the 60s with rocks and holes in the rough terrain in front of you.

Are you thinking about your mortgage? Hell no, you’re fully concentrated on staying vertical, not about your mortgage! Or perhaps you’re at the computer and fully engrossed in the moment. That’s flow, staying in the moment completely focused. Getting into a state of flow takes some guidance and practice. Applying it in a sexual encounter is sweet.

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Of course lots of people agree it’s important to live in the moment, especially if the moment is naked with a lover who is also naked. The big question is how to do that.  How to not think about premature ejaculation?  Overriding distraction, especially the intense kind that occurs once you’ve had sexual difficulty, takes practice.

To begin, letting go of what you want, helping men to last longer in bed, is the only way to get it. That’s the big paradox of regaining control-confidence, thinking too hard and trying too hard to exert control over rapid ejaculation is a perfect solution for making it worse.